Manners of the wives of the Salaf
Manners of the wives of the Salaf
The wife of great Tabi Said Bin Al Musayyib رحمه الله said,
“We did not speak to our husbands except how you would speak to your rulers (i.e with respect and politeness)”
[Hilyatul Awliya 7024] notesfrom-em
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Ramadhan Friendly Reminder
For those who fast, Allah distances their face from the hellfire for 70 years.
Ramadhan Tips
There is a lot to cover in terms of how to maximise your time during Ramadan, but I’m going to try and simplify and highlight the key points InshaAllah.
First things first, is to be excited that this month is approaching, if you’re feeling desensitised renew your intentions and be positive to build that excitement.
We need to understand and change our mindset of Ramadhan; fasting is no particular action of a Muslim, this is one of the pillars of Islam, hence the reward is beyond on what we could imagine. For those who fast, Allah distances their face from the hellfire for 70 years.
Here are a few action points:
1. Seeking forgiveness = for those you may have wronged, tidy up your life.
2. Perfect your salah = recite slowly and properly.
3. Charity = be generous but don’t over do it, as you don’t…
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When you “love” someone before marriage, you’re not in love with them.
The problem with the youth in this generation is that they confuse infatuation with love. There’s a huge difference between it. And it cannot be joined together. Infatuation is feeling attracted towards someone. To like something about them. It could be their looks or just something about them in general.
Love is different. And it’s pure and should be kept pure. Not like these haram relationship that people be in and call it love. It’s not love. It’s not love at all. You can like someone, you can feel attracted to them. But you don’t love them. And if you think you’re in love with someone you talk to on Instagram everyday. If you think you’re in love with someone from you’re school or college or work place or anywhere, trust me ITS NOT LOVE.
What you’re feeling right now CANNOT be love, because our prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam) said there is NO LOVE BEFORE MARRIAGE. get married and then see how you feel about each other, THAT will define if you’re truly in love or you just liked something about them.
Loving is not easy, to love someone for who they really are, to love Their habits, to love the way they are. You cannot just love someone for their face or beauty. Love is a lot more than that. If you think you love someone, make dua to Allah that he joins both of your hearts and makes it one.
Make dua to Allah to join your paths. Tell Allah that you want to keep it halal and that you don’t want to engross in haram. And then see how allah will make the path easy for you. If they are meant for you, you’ll end up with THEM ONLY, not ANYONE else. When you “love” someone before marriage, you’re not in love with them. You’re in love with the idea of who they are. You’re in love with what YOU think they are. You’re not in love with who they ACTUALLY are.
But after marriage, you see the real them, you see your actions, their way of living, you see their character, you see their manners, you see how they talk and how they behave. That’s when you can say if you’re in love or not.
If you think you’re in love, get married and make it halal. As simple as that. And Allah knows best.
By Aqsa – IG (Bintayub__). Source: healinwithsabr
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Seven practical steps to help you face difficult situations.
Never delay or neglect repentance/istighfaar & keep sending salwaat upon The Prophet ﷺ.
Seven practical steps to help you face difficult situations.
1. Salah:Make sure you stick to praying on time – 5 times a day. Never miss salah and do your best to pray each Salah with sincerity as if it’s your last salah in this world.
2. Read Quran:This Quran is so beautiful that no matter what difficulties you face you’ll find solace in it.
3. Make Dua:Especially the dua for removing anxiety.
“O Allaah, I take refuge in You from anxiety and sorrow, weakness and laziness, miserliness and cowardice, the burden of debts and from being over powered by men.”
Allahumma inni ‘a’udhubika minal hammi walhuzni, Wal’ajzi walkasali, walbukhli waljubni, Wa dal’id-daiyni wa ghalabatir-rajal
[Sahih al-Bukhari, 7/158]
4. Give Sadaqah:Give lots of charity, as much as you can, because it helps push away hardship. And if you can’t give money, even kind words or physical sadaqah…
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