The Abc Of Parenting
The Abc Of Parenting ❤
*Always trust your children to Allah’s care.
*Bring them to the Masaajids.
*Challenge them to high goals In deen.
*Delight in their achievements “Masha`Allah”
*Exalt Allah in their presence “Subhaan`Allah”
*Frown on evil ” Astaghfirullah”
*Give them love and understanding
*Hear their problems, be there for them.
*Ignore not their childish fears, tell them Allah is Always there.
*Joyfully accept their apologies, Allah is All Forgiving.
*Keep their confidence.
*Live a good example before them, Islamic etiquettes.
*Make them your friends.
*Never ignore their endless questions!
*Open your heart to their love.
*Pray for them by name, …May Allah make them the coolness of your eyes.
*Quicken your interest in their spirituality, Dhikrullah (remembrance of Allah)
*Remember their needs, show mercy to them
*Show them the way of Our Prophet Muhammad SalLalLahu Alehe WaSalLam and his companions. (Peace be upon them All).Use this as a moral guidance for their nurturing and upbringing.
*Teach them to appreciate every little in life. “Alhamdulillah”
*Understand they are still young and Innocent. “Fitrah”
*Verify your statements, speak clearly (Repeat it 3 times) like the way Muhammad SalLalLahu Alehe WaSalLam used to.
*Use diplomacy to wean them from bad company.
*Encourage them to obey, Allah and their parents.
* Use Deen as their beacon for success.
*Praise them for the good they do and tactfully reprimand them for the wrong they engage in.
* Establish Talim [Teachings of the Quran and Sunnah] in the Home
* Make Mashwera [consult] with them- This will build their confidence.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:”All of you are shepherds, and each one is responsible for his flock. A leader of people is a shepherd and responsible for them. A man is like a shepherd over his family, and he is responsible for his flock.
A woman is like a shepherd over her husband’s house and children, and she is responsible for them. And a slave is a guardian of his master’s property and is responsible for it. So all of you are guardians and are responsible for your charges.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
Make Daily Dua for their success in this world, the grave and the life after death!